Writer/activist Dan Savage and I have a lot in common. We’re both sex columnists; we’re both parents of teenage children; and we’re both married to men who look hot in their bathing suits. But when it comes to talking about sex, I’m as bland as vanilla baby pudding compared to the spicy, brutally honest, often controversial Savage. His advice column, “Savage Love,” is syndicated […]
Power and sex are two dynamics that are hard for couples to talk about, but both are huge factors in marital happiness. Dr. Cheryl Rampage, Ph.D., a licensed clinical psychologist and Executive Vice President at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, has worked with couples for decades and knows from her practice—as well as the latest research—how a balance of power and good sex can […]
Menopause is rarely considered a sexy time of life. But, armed with advice from two top North Shore gynecologists, I’m here to change that. Here’s what you need to know about how menopause can affect your sex life, and what you should do to continue to enjoy it. Better Sleep Means Better Sex Hormone changes don’t directly affect a woman’s libido, but […]
The November 2013 issue of Make It Better included a column by our Sex & the Suburbs Editor, Marjie Killeen, entitled “So Your Husband Watches Porn—Don’t Freak Out.” Reader Betty Tessien wrote a thoughtful and extensive response that we thought appropriate to share with you as an Op-Ed. We also think it is important to […]
Not just any gift is appropriate for your loved one…so make sure you choose wisely! And there’s nothing wrong with a gift to share while you’re at it. For Him 1. Spiegelau IPA Beer Glass Set: Sure, wine is romantic, but so is beer when served in these beautiful glasses designed specifically for hoppy […]
Is your husband watching porn? The truth is that most men do, at least sometimes. The Internet, combined with portable devices like smartphones and tablets, makes access to X-rated sites easy, immediate and private. Online porn is an estimated $2.8 billion business, not to mention the free stuff that’s out there. A whopping 87 percent […]
Ladies, let’s talk about the girls. They’re a distinctive feature of femininity and should be a source of pleasure and pride, but the truth is, many women feel some degree of conflict about their breasts. Society pays so much attention to them. We see a lot of boobs in the media but they tend to […]
The Wilmette Theatre turned steamy in June when Sex & the Suburbs brought “Sizzling Couples” to the stage. The expert panel gave plenty of juicy information about how couples can create fulfilling and exciting sex lives. Here are 4 ways to keep the sexual energy flowing in your relationship, including some quick tips you can […]
Women and men of the North Shore long to have a better connection with their partners, but they don’t always know how to go about it. Here’s a list of resources ranging from websites to exotic retreats that can help revitalize your relationship and make life more exciting. Sexy Website: GetLusty.com Founded by Chicagoans Erica […]
The rules of high-school romance are much different now than they were in our day. Technology and changing values have shaken up the courting protocol we old-timers used to call dating. Based on interviews with two groups of girls—juniors Abby, Kate and Maddy from New Trier, and seniors Megan, Claire and Rachel from Loyola (names […]
