Hey, all you hot mamas, if someone called you a “MILF,” would you be offended, flattered or plain confused? Most women are a bit of all three, because MILF is a loaded term. It originated as an acronym for the phrase “Mother I’d Like to Bleep,” mostly used by young men to express appreciation for […]
Everyone wants to be forgiving—the idea is rooted in human nature and our desire to connect with others. And everyone who makes a mistake wants to be forgiven: Look at Chris Brown, Gov. Mark Sanford, and John Edwards, to name just a few examples. But while forgiveness can come with rewards, it also can have […]
Every long-term relationship goes through peaks and valleys. Marriage counseling can help a couple work through the valleys and enjoy the peaks. Here are five things every committed couple should know about marriage counseling. 1. Counseling is for happy couples, too. Just like a car that’s making funny noises, when it comes to a relationship, […]
With the explosive growth of Facebook, reconnecting with an old flame is temptingly easy. Over 140 million Americans have Facebook accounts and 30% of them are over age 35. If you’re on Facebook, chances are your old high school or college sweetheart is too. In the old days (like back in 2007) if you wanted […]
The April book made its way to homes this week and the feedback on our Sex and the Suburbs column has been strong—both for and against. While we certainly love to spark a lively conversation, we don’t aim to offend. So, dear reader, we’re asking for your feedback. Did we take it too far?
“She’s so abusive!” “He’s not attentive.” “I don’t like the way she treats me.” “He’s never around.” These are some of the comments life counselor Robin Mitzen hears from married couples who are in therapy with her. Some of the things I hear from both men and women are so much worse, I can’t […]
It may not be as romantic as a night on the town, but if you really want to divorce-proof your marriage, sit down with your spouse for a talk about finances. Who’s the CFO? Nothing can cause marital strife quite like disagreements about money. In most relationships, one person tends to handle the family finances. […]
Want to plan a romantic evening for your husband or spice up your sex life a bit but are stumped for ideas? Check out G Boutique in Bucktown. This sexy shop, designed just for women, provides information and products intended to appeal to the female appetite. “We create an atmosphere where women feel comfortable,” Co-owner […]
Planning a romantic date at home with your sweetheart? Don’t sweat the details! Keep it cozy and fun with these 3 steps. Get comfortable Why not sit on the floor? Arrange fluffy pillows and blankets around a coffee table positioned in front of the fireplace. Not only is this casual setting more fun, it’s also […]
This 40-something mother of two tells the story of her mid-life journey to find sexual fulfillment … … all while staying happily married to her long-time husband. Pamela Madsen‘s desire to explore her sensuality, highlighted in “Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure…and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner,” […]
