Scientific Secrets for Better Sex

Good news, women. According to Emily Nagoski, a Ph.D. in health behavior and self-proclaimed sex nerd, the latest scientific research proves pretty much all of us are sexually normal. That means our libido isn’t too low or too high, our interests aren’t too tame or too kinky, and our wonderful bodies look and function just the […]

Can 36 Questions Reignite a Relationship?

“Love is the biggest predictor of human happiness,” says psychologist Arthur Aron. “More so than wealth or success. Relationship quality is even a bigger predictor of human health than smoking or obesity.” How do you view your love life? As wedding anniversaries roll around, do you reflect on your marriage—examine how your love has deepened, […]

Can 36 Questions Reignite a Relationship?

“Love is the biggest predictor of human happiness,” says psychologist Arthur Aron. “More so than wealth or success. Relationship quality is even a bigger predictor of human health than smoking or obesity.” How do you view your love life? As wedding anniversaries roll around, do you reflect on your marriage—examine how your love has deepened, […]

Where’s the Viagra for Women?

You’ve seen the ads. Rugged middle-aged man, oozing virility, builds campfire, obviously capable of meeting all of life’s physical challenges. Mature couple dances on beach; man confident he’s ready to perform when things turn frisky. Campaigns for drugs like  and Cialis strongly reinforce the idea that men deserve to enjoy sex throughout their lives, but when it […]

Sex After Kids: 4 Ways to Make It Happen

Has your sex life taken a hit since you had kids? Parenting young children is an emotionally and physically draining job. It’s often hard for a mom to muster the time and energy—much less the desire—to frolic wantonly with her equally exhausted husband. For many couples, parenthood can turn a vibrant sex life into an […]

7 Things Women Should Know About Divorce Before Getting One

This column often focuses on how to keep marriage hot, but the truth is not all women are in relationships that will last. This time of year—January through March—is known as “divorce season” because it’s when most couples file for dissolution of marriage in court. For women considering divorce, here are seven things to know […]

International Sex: A Worldlier View on Intimacy

A woman’s sexuality is deeply influenced by her culture—and ours may be holding us back. The U.S. is portrayed as a sexually charged nation, but studies show Americans aren’t actually experiencing or enjoying lovemaking as much as people in other countries. After talking with a group of eight fascinating North Shore women who hail from […]

Erotica For Real Moms

“Fifty Shades of Grey,” the bestselling tale of sex, secrets and submission has swept through suburban carpools and book clubs like a Swiffer on steroids. But aside from a few hot scenes—and a hilarious sex contract—the story left me cold. I could overlook the author E. L. James’ awkward prose and silly dialogue: “Next time […]

6 Reasons Why Women Cheat

Lately, the news has been filled with stories of men cheating on their wives, but what you don’t hear about in the news is women who have affairs. According to our sources, women who cheat are not as uncommon as you might think. But, unlike men, women in long-term relationships aren’t usually straying because of […]